Romantic tips on Dating, Love & Keeping the Spice in your a Relationship

During engagement season I collected dating advice from several couples, single individuals, married couples, and newlyweds. I called, associates, a old high school classmate, close friends, family, in-laws, small business owners, past clients, wedding planners and even my Mother & Father that been married almost 50 years their thoughts!

It was very interesting to get everyone's advice on love, dating, and romance! I hope you enjoy these awesome tips as much as I did! Many thanks to everyone that participated. 

"Hold hands, kiss often, enjoy pillow talk before going to bed, openly communicate with each other, surprise each other, plan spontaneous trips together, schedule the same days off together." - Clarissa 

"You have to be able to communicate, and be able to trust. If a person knows they can trust you, they feel comfortable. Lastly, be dependable." - Father 

"Do things with your husband, plan things together as a couple, Including problem solving. " -  Mother 

"Don't over spend in the beginning of your marriage." Everything you put into your marriage early on, will benefit when you get older." - Mother 

"You have to build on your marriage, always think of your spouse (husband /wife). Plan a special date night once a week ( it doesn't have to be expensive) " Mother 

 

"Give your mate an unexpected  massage.." - Nikki 

"A really  good meal with lots of sides and a homemade dessert!" - Sherita 

"Little things go a long way.

Pull out the special things that speak louder then any words , this helps reassure your special bond. " - Shontae 

"Surprise him every few weeks with little things he likes (example: pineapple aloe water),socks, tee-shirts; small things; less than $30 total. Even a romantic or sweet card and write a personal message in it" - Sherita 

"Well I make it a point try different places, alone not in a group setting; and make sure I look really nice, flirt, and give him compliments "  - Sherita 

"Don't stick to the same routine, change things up. Surprise each other every now and then. Keep the fire lit in the bedroom"  -Angleak 

"Communication very important."- Angleak 

"take vacations without the kids "- Tenesha 

"Plan monthly dates" - Tenesha 

"Love notes (socially or personally like text msgs or hand written Facebook) or favorite candy "-Tenesha

"Make sure u take time out to enjoy each others company " Angelica 

"Have Date Nights" - Angelica 

"Let them complete their sentences without interruption; that shows you are listening to what they have to say.  "- Farrah 

"Don't get into what you like and dislike; don't complain. Be attentive and open minded" - Farrah

"Don't get too personal on the first date"- Farrah 

"Keep it cordial and simple, enjoy the first moment" - Farrah

"Listen to him. Learn everything about him". - Aisha 

"Sexy lingerie and role playing."  Aisha 

"never do the same thing for to long switch it up; from the bedroom to going places. Always, try to create new experiences with each other." - Celena 

" Give yourself time to miss each other." Shunda"

"Schedule regular couples quality time."- Arie

"Have date nights!! Dress up go out; just the two of you, enjoy and have a good time" - Erica 

"While engaged learn to plan a specific night each week as a couple not to wedding plan: instead plan a special date night" - Dana 

 

Have a Sweet Day, 

Clarissa



Written by: Clarissa
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Date Night Jar

Couples are always going out on dates, and sometimes they can't decide where to go. There are so many options, places to go, and things to see. Especially, in the south! Here in Atlanta, Georgia the options are endless. I will teach you howł to make a quick and easy Date Night Jar! It's very fun to do and it requires a few materials.

Materials: 

Jar 

Label

Cardstock/Paper

Pen/Marker 

Popsicle Sticks

Ribbons

Here are 3 easy steps: 

1) On wooden popsicle sticks and or small pieces of paper. You will write down places you and your significant other like to go.

2) Next, you can order from a local print shop or have them custom made. Perhaps, you can get creative and make your very own!

3) Place all of your date night ideas in the jar. Get creative, and wrap ribbons around the jar, and attach the label. 

I hope you enjoyed this short tutorial, and have lots of fun making your date night jar! This will come in handy when you can't think of anywhere to go on those hot date nights!

I would love to hear your feedback about your date night jar!
 

Have Sweet Day, 

Clarissa

Written By: Clarissa 

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It’s Date Night! What are You Wearing?

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I'm so pleased to have my first guest blogger on the BLOG! This is exciting because the  topic of date night styling and fashion goes perfect with engagement season. Love is in the air! Enjoy!

By: Lei-Loni Greenhow of Fashion blog Clothe Your Curves

I love any reason to dress up and feel girlie, so bring on Date nights! Going out with my husband tends to be on the casual side, but once in awhile I get all dolled up.  For relationships new or more seasoned, dates nights can be a great a way to spend time moreor reconnect with your partner, and it doesn’t hurt to look good while doing it! Now let me clarify, looking great does not mean dressing completely out of character. Wearing heels or a body-con dress to create this fantasy look on your first date can be nice, but if you’re not comfortable; you’ll be pulling and wobbling all night! The focus should be on having a good time and not how uncomfortable you feel.

Perfect example, when I was in college I went on a date with a guy who I met at a home improvement store. When we met, I was wearing jeans, an over-sized shirt and some sneakers. You know, comfy stuff. On the date, I listened to my friends and went all out (in our early 20’s mindset)! Fitted shirt, tight jeans, heels, make-up; I thought I was doin’ it! His reaction; surprised of course, but as the date progressed my shirt kept rolling up, my “tight” jeans were way too tight, and our long romantic stroll was cut short, because my feet hurt. He could tell I was uncomfortable, and what made it worse was him telling me that he was expecting for me to look the way I did when we met! The moral of this story is BE COMFORTABLE, and most of all BE YOURSELF!

With that in mind, checkout some of these date looks and see if one speaks to you!

Lunch Date

If you're still one of the lucky few that take more than a half hour lunch, why not try a casual lunch date? Great for first dates or a chance to reconnect!

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Casual Date Wear

Date night does not always mean getting dressed up. You can feel just as amazing in a pair of boyfriend jeans and a tee!

              

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So Fancy

Planning to go somewhere special or a few notches above your normal dining routine? Get fancy in this gorgeous look!

    
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What’s are some of  your favorite date night looks? Does your spouse/fiancé have a favorite they love to see you in?

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5 Winter Dating ideas

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Baby it's cold outside! Here at The Sweetest we are blogging all about love and romance! Engagement season is in full swing, and we are really excited. 

Today, we will talk about 5 fabulous winter date ideas! 

Note: These are some of my recommendations for places here in Georgia! Below are some of my husband's and I favorites! 

#1) Iceskating - why not go out and hold hands together. Grab a cup of hot chocolate (dress warm), and hit the rink! Here in Georgia I love Atlantic Station's iceskating rink ( wrap your arms around each other's waist and have fun). 

#2) Coffee Shop - a fun way to sit, and lounge together on your smart phone, or tablet and surf the net on wifi. Order your favorite warm beverages, and hangout together. One of my favorites is Starbucks (of course) or Java Monkey Decatur, Georgia ( great conversations can be sparked in coffee shops).

#3) Draw & Sip together - Create a Canvas located in southeast Georgia in the city of Lithonia. It's certainly a perfect date night full of drawing and sipping on your favorite wine (BYFW - Bring Your Favorite Wine!!!)! 

#4) Go grab something SWEET - We love Cafe Intermezzo dessert, a wide selection of cakes, cheesecakes ( always different flavors). We also love to dine here ( Super Romantic) when you enter it's dimly lit with candles ( a beautiful and intimate place), and in the winter months the outdoor patio is well heated. What's great, is there are two locations to choose from. 

#5) Wine Tasting - attend a wine tasting together. There's a monthly wine tasting in the Virginia Highlands area, one of the most romantic places in Georgia! The place I love is called, Java Vino ( I know I love the Coffee Houses). Here they offer wine tastings, venue space, and great coffee. Inquire within for the next monthly tasting. 

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Have a Sweet Day, 

Clarissa